Friday, February 20, 2009

Communication with children

Here,I want to share with the readers about something that is rare to be stressed by the people.It is important because it involves the development of child due to it is a part of early stage of society.Thus, we should focus on parenting the children so that they can grow up well.One of the way of good parenting is having a good communication between us and them.A healthy communication in a family is essential to form and upgrade the development of self-value and the ability of children in order to be an assertive individual. In this matter, to encourage a healthy communication, parents should:
1) Talk directly to and look at their face( children )
2) Communicate by using a simple and easily be understood language following to the stage of age and their thinking level.
3) Use a clear word, e.g, as in dictionary. Don't use a child speaking.
4) Make sure a proper appearance and heart feeling as speaking to.
5) Listen to what they want to tell and appreciate their opinion.
6) Encourage meeting connection and two-way communication by using a polite language and not with shout,beat or tease.As a conclusion, parents are remembered so that don't use a child as the middle when misunderstanding occurs between them. The most important for any family to guarantee mentally health is a stable family, live with a full of loving and intimacy, each individual of family knows their own roles each other

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